Playing a Little Different : Emilie Hope
- littlespacepalace
- Aug 12, 2020
- 6 min read
hey babies, so sorry, I haven't been on this blog in quite a while. We all are being effected by this Covid pandemic. So I am doing my best to get back on this blog. A few of our bloggers had to sadly leave. So, for now it is just me; Emilie. For a good come back post. I thought I would talk about the more common kinks/plays. I am going to give them a good description and if you are interested I will have links to research so it is easier for you. I also need to state that some of these plays come with a TRIGGER WARNING.
Okay let's begin with AGE PLAY; if you are part of the DDLG/CGL community then you know briefly what Ageplay is if not let's get started; As it has PLAY in it's name, it is a type of roleplay where one or both partners act a younger age then they are. This is a fetish that can be both sexual or non-sexual for the player. The members that choose not to have a sexual mater to their dynamic just see it as the age-player being able to regress to younger age for many reasons, one being as such of a cooping method. They choose whether or not wear diapers if their contract allows it. The sexual age-player have other reasons such as humiliation or dynamic control. It is a form of humiliation kink where the age-player is degraded by being forced to age an age they are not. With that being said sometimes the "caregiver" Dom forces the age-player to wear diapers or wear clothing that does not show their adult age.
ANAL PLAY; This is where you insert something/ a penis into the anus to sexual arousal. You need to be careful with this play because you do not need to go to far into the anus or go to big with the object/penis so that the skin around the anus doesn't break. There are lubricates such as anal desensitizing lube. This is penetration so please talk to your partner(s) about their medical records especially STD records. A big part of anal play is called pegging, it is where a person inserts a dildo into a male's anus.
BREATH PLAY; WARNING THIS IS VERY DANGEROUS IF NOT DONE PROPERLY. It is where you cut off the airways where it feels like you are unable to breath. It goes by another name, erotic asphyxiation. You get the arousal of being "choked". I have read that you can use other objects other than your hand but for beginners; I would advise against anything but your hand so you have more control of where to press on the person's neck. When holding the neck, press on the side of the neck, the Carotid arteries, not on the front, the Larynx; you want to restrict the airways not to kill the person. >.< You will press lightly on the side of the neck under the jaw. If done properly, you will feel a sense of lightheadness and of course, more arousal. Do not do this for a long period of time, remember to take breaks and let the person actually breath.
BLOOD PLAY; This type of play can be dangerous but isn't as dangerous as some others. if you have an fascination with blood; this is a good play for you. You cause bleeding to the other person(s). Make sure not o cut too deep or in the wrong areas to cause bleeding. As like the others you need to sit with your partner(s) and discuss their medical history. Someone could also feel or taste the blood, not just seeing it to feel aroused.
EDGE PLAY; this is an umbrella term for plays such as impact play, knife play, breath play, blood play, fire play. There are many more but it id pretty much any play that has a higher risk than others.
FIRE PLAY; This one is a part of the edge play, it is pretty simple. You get aroused by playing with fire or fire being played with around you. You need to be extremely careful with this due to fire can ya know... burn so do not have any objects around that are flammable and if you do get burned seek medical attention.
IMPACT PLAY; This is as the name implies impact like spanking, flogging; some form of pain caused by an object to your body. This type of play can be as soft or as hard as the person being impacted wants it. Just remember to discuss the limits before and test certain item first. Forms of this as a stated before is spanking, flogging, caning, punching (never punch in the face), slapping and even wax play. It is another form of humiliation especially if it is perform in front of an audience. You can get things for this type of play at different stores; they are not limited to kink types of stores but if you are a beginner please start with kink specified items. Make sure you have a good safe word for this and all kink related plays. Aftercare is very important with any kink play but this one may require a little more attention due to injuries.
KNIFE PLAY; This one can get a bit dangerous so please research this more than just this blog. This like any other kink play, you need to sit with your partner(s) and discuss the does and don't. You need to discuss if there are any fears that make be brought up with knife play since this type of play is part of fear play. Also, you need to discuss medical records, this goes passed the basic STD discussion. Does your partners' blood clot properly? Do they have a fear of seeing blood? These are only a few questions to ask. Another big thing, is do not engage in this play if you or your partner(s) are under the influence of any drugs or alcohol. This is a sensual kink using the feeling sense; you can use many sharp objects such as knifes, swords and daggers. You can not only cut the skin with this play but also ripe clothing and pick things off of the kinkster's body. Remember aftercare for this play and make sure the person who is cleaning wounds has proper gear on to sanitize the cuts.
MEDICAL PLAY; Another form of roleplay where you or your partner(s) play honestly sexy doctor and patient. It can be a form of humiliation because the "patient" can be gagged, stripped naked or restrained. It brings on the sensations like a real medical exam such as items entering places that are hot or frozen. There are medical sex toys like the Wartenberg wheels and speculums that enhance the sexual experience. Do not try this type of play when the submissive is actually sick.
NEEDLE PLAY; This is similar to knife play but it involves needles of course and the same as play piercing. You need to make sure all the needles are sanitized before play and you use all proper gear. You get aroused when a needle pierces through a piece of your skin. Make sure also to dispose of the needles and sharp objects properly.
PETPLAY; Another form of roleplaying, where the submissive takes on the trait of an animal. Most common are bunnies, puppies, kittens and ponies but not limited to any animal. This person acts and dresses like said animal. The owner/ trainer is normally the person's Dom(me) but there are cases for another "trainer" to help keep the pet on track. This like CGL can be sexual or non sexual so there is a case where the complete dynamic is platonic. This is not to be confused with Furries, you are not required to have a full suit like a furry; a simple pair of ears and/or a tail are perfectly fine.
ROLEPLAY; This is a bigger form of plays such as Ageplay, where you create a senerio for you and your partner(s) to act out like school girl/teacher, daddy/little, customer/worker, or business owner/employee etc. You see this a lot when watching porn where they act different then the person actually is.
SENSATION PLAY; This play is another self explanatory play, where you use your senses to get arousal.
WAX PLAY; The number one thing, I have learned when it comes to Wax play is that you do not use regular candles or waxes. You must buy wax play/kink waxes that you can get at most sex shops in store and online. This is another sensual kink that uses feeling and smell to be honest. It can be dangerous just like knife play because you will be using fire. You will notice if you get an actual kink candle then a regular candle that the wax itself feels different so remember that when preforming this kink. Make sure that you do not have anything on your skin before this scene, also make sure the candle is a good bit of distance from the skin or it could leave burns. In the beginning do not go crazy and do a big section, make sure to start in smaller sections so you do not overwhelm yourself or your partner(s).
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